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Key Takeaways
- Understanding the differences between anxiety vs stress is essential for emotional well-being, as stress is typically triggered by external factors while anxiety tends to be persistent and internal.
- While stress and anxiety share overlapping symptoms like fatigue, muscular pain, and irritability, stress is often fleeting, whereas anxiety can linger long after the initial stressor is removed.
- Therapeutic grounding techniques, such as engaging your senses with your immediate physical environment, can effectively interrupt anxious thought patterns and calm the mind.
- Practicing the Four A's of stress relief—Avoid, Alter, Accept, and Adapt—provides a structured framework for managing daily pressures and reducing anxious feelings.
- Mild anxiety can often be managed through self-care mechanisms like physical activity, proper sleep, a nutritious diet, and deep breathing exercises, though persistent symptoms require professional support.
Join us as we explore the complex connection between anxiety and stress, the two emotional responses that are often intertwined yet distinct. In this short course, we will unravel the nuances of how stress, typically triggered by external factors, contrasts with anxiety, which tends to persist and often arises from internal perceptions.
The episode offers you insightful approaches to managing these emotions effectively.
You will gain a rich understanding of the symptoms and causes of both stress and anxiety, recognizing how these conditions manifest in daily life. We will discuss the importance of identifying external stressors and how reconciliation can alleviate short-term stress.
In contrast, anxiety is described as a persistent state that can linger even after the stressor is removed, demanding more conscious coping strategies. The episode dives into practical measures for treating mild anxiety, such as the benefits of physical activity, healthy sleep, and diet, alongside the importance of reaching out to mental health professionals for severe instances.
What to do:
For mild stress and anxiety: Try managing symptoms with coping mechanisms like physical activity, proper sleep, a balanced diet, and deep breathing exercises.
For persistent or severe stress/anxiety: If your stress or anxiety is affecting your daily life and is not managed by self-care, consider speaking to a mental health professional.
- Deep breathing, mindfulness practices, and regular physical activity can all help alleviate anxiety symptoms both immediately and over time.
- To deal with anxiety, restrict stimuli regularly, reduce caffeine and social media consumption, establish and stick to a schedule, and practice positive self-talk.
Managing Anxiety and Stress: Unraveling the Complex Emotional Web
Interconnection of Anxiety and Stress: Both anxiety and stress are emotional responses that share overlapping symptoms but differ in persistence and sources.
Practical Grounding Techniques: Grounding exercises, such as sensory engagement and support networks, can effectively mitigate anxiety symptoms.
The Four A's of Stress Relief—Avoid, Alter, Accept, and Adapt—provide a structured approach to managing stress and reducing anxiety.
Understanding the nuances between anxiety and stress is essential in today’s world, where emotional well-being is increasingly prioritized. Anxiety often stems from a heightened response to stress, showing how closely interwoven these emotional states are.
Empowering Grounding Techniques for Anxiety Relief
Grounding is an essential strategy highlighted in the transcript to manage anxiety effectively. This method involves anchoring oneself in the present moment through sensory engagement, countering the mind's tendency to wander into anxiety-inducing thoughts.
Synthesizing Insights
- Navigating the intertwined realms of anxiety and stress requires a nuanced comprehension of their shared and disparate characteristics.
- Employing grounding techniques, leveraging the Four A's, and recognizing the persistent nature of anxiety compared to stress pave the way for effective management strategies.
As you learn more about these emotional dynamics, the potential for improving mental health through informed approaches becomes abundantly clear, empowering you to reclaim your emotional well-being in the face of life's inevitable stressors.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the difference between anxiety vs stress?
Stress is typically an emotional response triggered by an external factor that usually subsides once the situation is resolved, whereas anxiety is a persistent state of worry that often lingers even after the stressor is removed.
How can I use grounding techniques for anxiety relief?
Grounding involves anchoring yourself in the present moment by keeping your eyes open and actively engaging your senses with your immediate environment—such as noticing what you see, smell, hear, and touch.
What are the Four A's of stress relief?
The Four A's stand for Avoid, Alter, Accept, and Adapt. They provide a practical approach to managing stressors and reducing anxious feelings by either changing your environment, accepting what you cannot control, or adjusting your perspective.
When should I see a mental health professional for anxiety?
You should consider consulting a mental health professional if your anxiety is persistent, negatively affects your daily functioning, and does not improve with self-care coping mechanisms like exercise, sleep, and grounding.
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We appreciate your interest in today's Meditation
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Life Skills podcast. We sincerely grateful for
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your support. If you are stressing out over something
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worrying you, it's safe to say you are anxious.
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In other words, anxiety and stress are very closely
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related. As a matter of fact, they create similar
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symptoms. The symptoms of stress. Anger, difficulty
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sleeping, irritability, fatigue, muscular pain,
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digestive issues. The symptoms of anxiety. It's
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hard to focus and concentrate. Fatigue, rapid
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breathing, muscular pain and tension, increased
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heart rate. Irritability Stress and anxiety are
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both emotional responses. They're how a person
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deals with what's happening around their thoughts.
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Usually, stress is caused by some external factor.
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Maybe you're arguing with a friend. Something
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happened and the two of you are at odds. You
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both care for each other, so this is very stressful.
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In these short -term situations, reconciliation
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can end the stress. Some stress is long -term.
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If a person suffers from a chronic disease, their
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physical health problems can lead to mental stress
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that might be experienced daily. In this case,
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some outside source has triggered the stress
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response, as with most other issues where stress
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is experienced. How anxiety is different from
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stress. We mentioned earlier that anxiety can
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be a response to a stressful situation. If you
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and your friend have a serious argument, that
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can cause a lot of anxiety. Anxiety differs from
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stress because it usually doesn't go away when
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the stressor is removed. It's a worry taken to
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the extreme. This is often worrying about things
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that aren't actually troublesome. The person
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experiencing anxiety perceives some issue that
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really isn't there. Whereas stress is often fleeting,
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anxiety is commonly persistent. Treating mild
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anxiety. If your anxiety doesn't threaten to
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keep you from dealing with your daily responsibilities,
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it can respond to simple treatment. Being physically
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active is often enough to trigger a feel -good
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chemical response that helps you overcome mild
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anxiety. Regularly getting plenty of restful
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sleep, enjoying a healthy, nutritious diet, and
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discussing your problems with loved ones are
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other coping mechanisms that defeat short -term
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or mild anxiety. If you are regularly anxious
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and these treatments don't help, consult a mental
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health professional. When your anxiety affects
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your normal daily functioning, it threatens your
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quality of life and can lead to serious mental
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and physical health problems if not treated properly.
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Three tips for better grounding to reduce anxiety.
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Were you ever grounded as a child? This is a
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form of punishment. If you somehow ran afoul
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of your parents' rules, they would ground you
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to your room or some other specific space. The
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idea is that you can't leave that space for a
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certain amount of time. Grounded children learn
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to make the best out of a bad situation. They
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look around their punishment environment to find
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something in this confined area that will distract
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them. They engage their senses with what they
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have access to rather than thinking about things
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they aren't able to do, play with their friends,
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watch television, ride their bicycle. If you
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need to deal with anxiety, you can ground yourself
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as an adult. This form of therapeutic grounding
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is similar to your punishment as a child. You
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limit your sensory involvement to the immediate
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area. This involves attaching yourself to the
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right -now moment and your current physical space.
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Here are three tips that will help you get more
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anxiety relief from grounding. One, practice
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makes perfect. The human brain is an amazing
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computer. You can program it to do so many things.
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Many of your skills and abilities were developed
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thanks to you repeatedly practicing them. Practice
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grounding and you will get better at it over
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time. This is because your mind recognizes things
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you do repeatedly. It assumes that if you consciously
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repeat certain behaviors, they must benefit you
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or you wouldn't do them. Where grounding is concerned,
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practice is powerful. Calm yourself and engage
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your senses. What do you see, smell, hear, touch,
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and taste right now? Ground yourself in the present
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moment only. Take your focus away from what's
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causing you anxiety. Place it in your immediate
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environment. The more you practice this, the
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better you'll get at removing your focus from
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what's making you anxious. 2. Build a support
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network. The people you care about can help you
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with this process. Teach them what grounding
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does for you and why you use it. Enlisting help
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this way can be wonderful, because sometimes
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anxiety might be sneaking up on you without you
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recognizing it. A friend may be able to tell
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you that you might benefit from some grounding
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if they see warning signs of anxiety. They may
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say, are you feeling anxious? Let's do some grounding.
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What color is the shirt I'm wearing? How does
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your clothing feel on you? What do you smell
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right now? What sounds are you hearing? Anxiety
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involves worrying and obsessing over some real
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or perceived thought or experience. It's usually
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not something that's going on in your current
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moment. This is why you want to keep your eyes
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open and focus on the physically present things
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around you right now. If you close your eyes
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and limit your sensory input dramatically, this
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can allow your mind to wander to those anxious
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feelings and experiences. Open your eyes for
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a better grounding experience and let them take
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in all the visual input in your immediate environment.
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Using your senses to ground you in reality can
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calm an anxious mind. These three tips help improve
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your grounding so you enjoy less stress and anxiety.
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The four A's of stress relief can help reduce
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feelings of anxiety. A little anxiety from time
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to time is normal. You're running late to work,
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your boss already has talked with you about showing
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up on time, you haven't been the most punctual
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employee in the past, and here you are running
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late again. It's a common reaction to get anxious
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about this situation. Did you let the cat out
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before you left home this morning? Are you going
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to make the right impression on a first date?
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This is the first time you're giving a presentation
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at work, and the company owner will be in attendance
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with several other company bigwigs. Are you properly
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prepared for this experience that can make or
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break your career? These are examples of normally
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tense situations. Even though they aren't as
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unhealthy as chronic anxiety, you'd still like
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to avoid them. To get the upper hand on anxious
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feelings, whether irregular or infrequent, put
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the four A's of stress relief to work. Avoid,
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Alter, Accept, and Adapt. Avoid. Extreme cases
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of anxiety may not be influenced by your surroundings
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or the people you deal with. The constant worry
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and obsession over something happens regardless
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of where and who you're with. In many cases,
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though, feelings of anxiety can be reduced or
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overcome entirely by avoiding the people, places,
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and things that are causing them. This might
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only apply when you can control your surroundings
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and who you spend your time with. If you can,
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avoid people that make you anxious. Control your
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surroundings, your environment. Avoid taking
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on lots of unnecessary responsibilities that
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can ramp up your anxiety. Steer clear of things
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you know are likely to make you anxious. Alter.
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This stress reduction practice is empowering.
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You take action. Look at what's happening around
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you and attempt to change the environment or
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situation to create more positive feelings. You
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may ask others to engage in some different type
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of behavior. Speak about your feelings and why
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you hope things can be altered to address those
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feelings. Changing how you manage your time is
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a simple way to avoid a lot of unnecessary anxiety.
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If you can change or alter stressors making you
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feel anxious, do so. Accept. Acceptance is an
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anxiety killer. You realize you can't avoid or
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alter a situation that worries you. If you can
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accept that most of life will be out of your
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control, this acceptance can replace anxiety.
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You act on what you can influence or control,
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not what you can't. Adopt. Accepting that you,
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unfortunately, can't control everything provides
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you with another option. Why not adapt instead?
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If you're faced with anxiety from a situation
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you must constantly experience and can't control,
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then adapt. Develop positive mantras that make
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you feel good. Remember that this anxiety is
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a choice your emotions make and decide to feel
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differently. Adjust the way you look at a situation.
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After you experience anxiety and nothing bad
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happens, remind yourself of this later. It can
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take the negative power out of anxiety. You look
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back and realize that you may have been obsessing
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and worrying for no reason. These four A's of
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stress relief can help you experience fewer anxious
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feelings. You reduce your level of anxiety and
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create more positive emotions. If these and your
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other efforts to reduce anxiety don't create
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the outcome you're looking for, talk to a mental
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health professional as soon as possible.
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We appreciate your interest in today's Meditation
00:00:02.399 --> 00:00:05.459
Life Skills podcast. We sincerely grateful for
00:00:05.459 --> 00:00:28.160
your support. If you are stressing out over something
00:00:28.160 --> 00:00:30.699
worrying you, it's safe to say you are anxious.
00:00:31.199 --> 00:00:33.740
In other words, anxiety and stress are very closely
00:00:33.740 --> 00:00:36.320
related. As a matter of fact, they create similar
00:00:36.320 --> 00:00:41.039
symptoms. The symptoms of stress. Anger, difficulty
00:00:41.039 --> 00:00:44.460
sleeping, irritability, fatigue, muscular pain,
00:00:44.820 --> 00:00:48.659
digestive issues. The symptoms of anxiety. It's
00:00:48.659 --> 00:00:51.740
hard to focus and concentrate. Fatigue, rapid
00:00:51.740 --> 00:00:54.679
breathing, muscular pain and tension, increased
00:00:54.679 --> 00:00:58.549
heart rate. Irritability Stress and anxiety are
00:00:58.549 --> 00:01:01.090
both emotional responses. They're how a person
00:01:01.090 --> 00:01:03.189
deals with what's happening around their thoughts.
00:01:03.789 --> 00:01:06.409
Usually, stress is caused by some external factor.
00:01:07.010 --> 00:01:09.129
Maybe you're arguing with a friend. Something
00:01:09.129 --> 00:01:11.510
happened and the two of you are at odds. You
00:01:11.510 --> 00:01:13.930
both care for each other, so this is very stressful.
00:01:14.629 --> 00:01:17.209
In these short -term situations, reconciliation
00:01:17.209 --> 00:01:20.609
can end the stress. Some stress is long -term.
00:01:20.810 --> 00:01:23.409
If a person suffers from a chronic disease, their
00:01:23.409 --> 00:01:25.569
physical health problems can lead to mental stress
00:01:25.569 --> 00:01:28.349
that might be experienced daily. In this case,
00:01:28.709 --> 00:01:30.750
some outside source has triggered the stress
00:01:30.750 --> 00:01:33.390
response, as with most other issues where stress
00:01:33.390 --> 00:01:36.430
is experienced. How anxiety is different from
00:01:36.430 --> 00:01:39.090
stress. We mentioned earlier that anxiety can
00:01:39.090 --> 00:01:42.049
be a response to a stressful situation. If you
00:01:42.049 --> 00:01:43.969
and your friend have a serious argument, that
00:01:43.969 --> 00:01:47.180
can cause a lot of anxiety. Anxiety differs from
00:01:47.180 --> 00:01:49.620
stress because it usually doesn't go away when
00:01:49.620 --> 00:01:52.780
the stressor is removed. It's a worry taken to
00:01:52.780 --> 00:01:55.260
the extreme. This is often worrying about things
00:01:55.260 --> 00:01:57.459
that aren't actually troublesome. The person
00:01:57.459 --> 00:01:59.859
experiencing anxiety perceives some issue that
00:01:59.859 --> 00:02:02.879
really isn't there. Whereas stress is often fleeting,
00:02:03.180 --> 00:02:06.760
anxiety is commonly persistent. Treating mild
00:02:06.760 --> 00:02:09.560
anxiety. If your anxiety doesn't threaten to
00:02:09.560 --> 00:02:11.620
keep you from dealing with your daily responsibilities,
00:02:12.099 --> 00:02:15.000
it can respond to simple treatment. Being physically
00:02:15.000 --> 00:02:17.020
active is often enough to trigger a feel -good
00:02:17.020 --> 00:02:19.199
chemical response that helps you overcome mild
00:02:19.199 --> 00:02:22.039
anxiety. Regularly getting plenty of restful
00:02:22.039 --> 00:02:24.919
sleep, enjoying a healthy, nutritious diet, and
00:02:24.919 --> 00:02:27.099
discussing your problems with loved ones are
00:02:27.099 --> 00:02:29.479
other coping mechanisms that defeat short -term
00:02:29.479 --> 00:02:32.520
or mild anxiety. If you are regularly anxious
00:02:32.520 --> 00:02:34.939
and these treatments don't help, consult a mental
00:02:34.939 --> 00:02:37.349
health professional. When your anxiety affects
00:02:37.349 --> 00:02:39.590
your normal daily functioning, it threatens your
00:02:39.590 --> 00:02:41.830
quality of life and can lead to serious mental
00:02:41.830 --> 00:02:44.990
and physical health problems if not treated properly.
00:02:48.050 --> 00:02:50.710
Three tips for better grounding to reduce anxiety.
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Were you ever grounded as a child? This is a
00:02:53.930 --> 00:02:56.469
form of punishment. If you somehow ran afoul
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of your parents' rules, they would ground you
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to your room or some other specific space. The
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idea is that you can't leave that space for a
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certain amount of time. Grounded children learn
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to make the best out of a bad situation. They
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look around their punishment environment to find
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something in this confined area that will distract
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them. They engage their senses with what they
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have access to rather than thinking about things
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they aren't able to do, play with their friends,
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watch television, ride their bicycle. If you
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need to deal with anxiety, you can ground yourself
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as an adult. This form of therapeutic grounding
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is similar to your punishment as a child. You
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limit your sensory involvement to the immediate
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area. This involves attaching yourself to the
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right -now moment and your current physical space.
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Here are three tips that will help you get more
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anxiety relief from grounding. One, practice
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makes perfect. The human brain is an amazing
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computer. You can program it to do so many things.
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Many of your skills and abilities were developed
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thanks to you repeatedly practicing them. Practice
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grounding and you will get better at it over
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time. This is because your mind recognizes things
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you do repeatedly. It assumes that if you consciously
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repeat certain behaviors, they must benefit you
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or you wouldn't do them. Where grounding is concerned,
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practice is powerful. Calm yourself and engage
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your senses. What do you see, smell, hear, touch,
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and taste right now? Ground yourself in the present
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moment only. Take your focus away from what's
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causing you anxiety. Place it in your immediate
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environment. The more you practice this, the
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better you'll get at removing your focus from
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what's making you anxious. 2. Build a support
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network. The people you care about can help you
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with this process. Teach them what grounding
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does for you and why you use it. Enlisting help
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this way can be wonderful, because sometimes
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anxiety might be sneaking up on you without you
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recognizing it. A friend may be able to tell
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you that you might benefit from some grounding
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if they see warning signs of anxiety. They may
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say, are you feeling anxious? Let's do some grounding.
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What color is the shirt I'm wearing? How does
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your clothing feel on you? What do you smell
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right now? What sounds are you hearing? Anxiety
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involves worrying and obsessing over some real
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or perceived thought or experience. It's usually
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not something that's going on in your current
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moment. This is why you want to keep your eyes
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open and focus on the physically present things
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around you right now. If you close your eyes
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and limit your sensory input dramatically, this
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can allow your mind to wander to those anxious
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feelings and experiences. Open your eyes for
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a better grounding experience and let them take
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in all the visual input in your immediate environment.
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Using your senses to ground you in reality can
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calm an anxious mind. These three tips help improve
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your grounding so you enjoy less stress and anxiety.
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The four A's of stress relief can help reduce
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feelings of anxiety. A little anxiety from time
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to time is normal. You're running late to work,
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your boss already has talked with you about showing
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up on time, you haven't been the most punctual
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employee in the past, and here you are running
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late again. It's a common reaction to get anxious
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about this situation. Did you let the cat out
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before you left home this morning? Are you going
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to make the right impression on a first date?
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This is the first time you're giving a presentation
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at work, and the company owner will be in attendance
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with several other company bigwigs. Are you properly
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prepared for this experience that can make or
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break your career? These are examples of normally
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tense situations. Even though they aren't as
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unhealthy as chronic anxiety, you'd still like
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to avoid them. To get the upper hand on anxious
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feelings, whether irregular or infrequent, put
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the four A's of stress relief to work. Avoid,
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Alter, Accept, and Adapt. Avoid. Extreme cases
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of anxiety may not be influenced by your surroundings
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or the people you deal with. The constant worry
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and obsession over something happens regardless
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of where and who you're with. In many cases,
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though, feelings of anxiety can be reduced or
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overcome entirely by avoiding the people, places,
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and things that are causing them. This might
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only apply when you can control your surroundings
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and who you spend your time with. If you can,
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avoid people that make you anxious. Control your
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surroundings, your environment. Avoid taking
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on lots of unnecessary responsibilities that
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can ramp up your anxiety. Steer clear of things
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you know are likely to make you anxious. Alter.
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This stress reduction practice is empowering.
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You take action. Look at what's happening around
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you and attempt to change the environment or
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situation to create more positive feelings. You
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may ask others to engage in some different type
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of behavior. Speak about your feelings and why
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you hope things can be altered to address those
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feelings. Changing how you manage your time is
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a simple way to avoid a lot of unnecessary anxiety.
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If you can change or alter stressors making you
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feel anxious, do so. Accept. Acceptance is an
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anxiety killer. You realize you can't avoid or
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alter a situation that worries you. If you can
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accept that most of life will be out of your
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control, this acceptance can replace anxiety.
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You act on what you can influence or control,
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not what you can't. Adopt. Accepting that you,
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unfortunately, can't control everything provides
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you with another option. Why not adapt instead?
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If you're faced with anxiety from a situation
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you must constantly experience and can't control,
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then adapt. Develop positive mantras that make
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you feel good. Remember that this anxiety is
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a choice your emotions make and decide to feel
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differently. Adjust the way you look at a situation.
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After you experience anxiety and nothing bad
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happens, remind yourself of this later. It can
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take the negative power out of anxiety. You look
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back and realize that you may have been obsessing
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and worrying for no reason. These four A's of
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stress relief can help you experience fewer anxious
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feelings. You reduce your level of anxiety and
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create more positive emotions. If these and your
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other efforts to reduce anxiety don't create
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the outcome you're looking for, talk to a mental
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health professional as soon as possible.
